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5 Ways To Make Your Child Competent

Here are 5 Ways You Can Make Your Children Competent in Every Walks of Life!

Competence is the ability of accomplishing goals effectively. A competent person can notice what is to be done for a given situations and knows how to stay on track and respond adequately. A competent person acts with inspiration, feelings, but does not let emotions deter him or her. The individual is able to overcome external and internal obstacles and accomplish tasks themselves. In adults, competence is a prerequisite for personal and professional success.
However, for children too, competence as characteristic helps in handling emotional challenges they encounter difficult preschool activities in their developmental stage. Through competence, kids can emerge with greater confidence and manage emotional intelligence when they are between people or face any setbacks. Here is how you can assist your child in developing competence that is mix of resourcefulness, confidence, mastery, perseverance and a lot more.
1. Let Your Child Handle Situations by Individually at an Early Age
As a parent, you could be protective about your children. However, rather than “doing” all the tasks for your kid, it is important to sometimes stand by and guide him/her through tasks, even if it means something as simple as learning to brush teeth. If you sound too worried in front of your children about tough competitions or circumstance they face in preschools or schools, then it will immediately instill doubt and fear in their minds and reduce their competence level.
2. Allow Kids to Discover and Learn
At a tender age, children learn from different sources, sometimes from their immediate surroundings. They explore around and learn from such experiences. Now, one way you can make this process easier, yet competent is by not altering the reality, because at the end of the day, your kid is going to grow up and thus know what life is like. If they are curious, do answer them. Children are always full of questions, while sometimes, you may have to tone down the reality, but never tell lies to them.
3. Help Them Build Confidence By Having Them Tackle Challenges
Every phase in life has a set of challenges, when we pass those one by one, looking back at the journey is always a learning experience, and this starts from an early age. By encouraging and motivating your children to take kids activity and challenges in stride, you raise their competence level, which assists them to be independent in the end, where they are able to decide and analyze situations for their own good. If you deter them from taking up hurdles and rather be in their comfort zones, you are instantly lowering their self-confidence.
4. Empathize Instead of Evaluating Them Always
In case your child has won a quiz competition, you obviously would be happy, at the same time you may enquire about the questions that were asked. While enquiring is good as it means you are communicating with your child more and seem interested in their success, do not overdo it. Do appreciate their achievements first, than getting into “tell me now everything”, behavior. Empathize with them even if they win or lose than evaluating their intentions and circumstances all the time.
Do not set them up for failure by “rescuing” them from hardships, in fact let them know that troubles are part of life and teach them the coping tactics, so from the preschool education itself, they can become self-reliant. Also, praise the efforts more than the results. Never say, you did not commit any mistake. If they have committed one, let them know in subtle manner, and tell them the right way of approaching things.
5. Self Encouragement and Modeling of Positive Self Talk
Research has shown that children who speak with themselves through challenges can stay calmer and are able to persevere when the times are difficult. If they do not succeed, encourage them to try again, and tell them how practice makes one perfect. They may become silent when facing hard times, but as a parent, you have to let them know that it is not the end of the world. Teach them about how they can self-talk themselves in finding hope and victory down the line.

If as a parent, you follow the above-mentioned methods, you can surely help your children become competent in every spheres of life.

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